- Visit or contact your local Family Hub or Children's Centre
- Download the Anya App
- Download the DadPad App
- Stories from other parents on the Hearts and Minds website
- How to meditate for beginners on the Every Mind Matters website
- Self-compassion on the Centre for Clinical Interventions website
Becoming a parent is a major life change – whether it is a first baby or part of a growing family. It can be an exciting time, but also a challenging one. For the family unit to thrive and for baby to have the best start, the mental health and wellbeing of parents and carers is important.
Here are some tips to help you look after your mental health and wellbeing:
- Take care of yourself: Make sure you're getting enough sleep, eating healthy foods, and exercising regularly. Taking care of your physical health will help to improve your mental health.
- Set realistic expectations: Don't expect to be perfect, and don't be afraid to make mistakes. Just do your best and be patient with yourself.
- Take some time for yourself: It's important to take some time for yourself each day, even if it's just for a few minutes. Do something that you enjoy and that helps you to relax.
- Practice self-care: Self-care is important for everyone, but it's especially important for people with mental health challenges. Make sure you're taking care of your physical and mental health.
- Find a support system: Having a support system of people who can understand what you're going through can be very helpful. This could include your partner, family, friends, or a support group. Use our session finder to find group sessions available.
- Talk to someone: It's important to talk to someone about how you're feeling. This could be a friend, family member, therapist, or a trusted person. Talking about your feelings can help you to process them and feel better.
Useful links and resources
Here are some useful self-help videos, websites, tools and resources if you're not quite feeling yourself or you are suffering from low mood or anxiety.
Not quite feeling yourself
Low mood and anxiety
- Unhelpful thinking habits on the Get Self Help website
- Intrusive thoughts and other scary feelings on the Maternal Mental Health Alliance website
- How to meditate for beginners on the Every Mind Matters website
- Feeling low on the Every Mind Matters website
- Thought record sheet on the Get Self Help website
- Watch a short collection of videos is designed to provide you with simple tools and techniques to reduce stresson the NHS England website
- Understanding how our bodies react with adrenaline
- Managing anxiety on the Every Mind Matters website
- Worry management on the TalkPlus website
- Compassion kit bag on the Get Self Help website
- Self-compassion on the Centre for Clinical Interventions website
- Download thought diaries from the worksheets on the Centre for Clinical Intervention website